Life without Conflicts
If you can see your parents' circumstances, you will stop arguing with them and you can easily avoid conflicts with them.
A human being looks for happiness in the worldly life and everything he does is with the intent to be happy. So why have conflicts taken such a stronghold everywhere?
To answer this question let’s take a look at an example on managing conflict. Say two people are sitting beside each other on a bench. The person on the right, will say that the other person is sitting to their left. And the person on the left, will say that the other person is sitting to their right. In this situation who is correct and who is incorrect? Both people are correct according to their viewpoint. We cannot say one is incorrect and the other is correct.
Similarly, conflicts arise because of difference of viewpoints. By not understanding the other person’s viewpoint you get pulled into a conflict. The person who wants to avoid the conflict is the one who will have to understand the other persons’ viewpoint. Once we realize that everyone is correct from their own viewpoint, then there remains nothing in this world worth having a conflict over!
When it comes to conflict management, there are many interpersonal techniques to remove the misunderstandings between colleagues, spouses, children and parents, etc. With these techniques, managing conflict becomes easy, irrespective of the people between whom conflict has arisen.
These conflict management techniques are shown by Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan, a spiritual master, who has disclosed all the possible keys of conflict management, which are practically applicable to any relationship.
Learn how to handle conflict in your life with the spiritual knowledge below…
A. Questioner: Definition of Suffering Dadashri: True unhappiness is when you are hungry and you do... Read More
A. Questioner: Dada, my children misbehave at home. My scolding has no effect on them. Dadashri: ... Read More
Q. Words hurt children … so how to deal with children?
A. Dadashri: In the current times, there is nothing better than speaking as little as possible. Today... Read More
Q. How to reprimand or scold children for their improvement?
A. Questioner: How can I tell whether I have improved? Dadashri: When others see love in you even... Read More
Q. I have big row with my wife, who is at fault?
A. Questioner : Some people just do not understand, no matter how nicely you interact with... Read More
Q. The other person comes to pick a fight, what should I do?
A. Questioner : What should we do if we do not want to get into a conflict but the other person comes... Read More
Q. What is the ultimate solution to conflict between man and woman?
A. Dadashri: Man has to marry for his food! He may think to himself, 'I am the bread winner,' but who... Read More
Q. How conflicts can be resolved?
A. Dadashri: The one who learns the art of adjusting is the one who has turned towards the path of... Read More
Q. How do I deal with difficult spouse?
A. Dadashri: It would be a different matter if after quarreling with your wife; you would have nothing... Read More
Q. What is the importance of 'True Intent' in resolving conflicts?
A. Questioner : What should we do when we know that despite our efforts to compromise to reach a... Read More
Q. What should be the Goal of Life?
A. Dadashri: Why do you conduct your business? Questioner : To earn money. Dadashri : Money for... Read More
Q. What is Ideal Business and what are its Limits?
A. Questioner : What is ideal Business? Dadashri: The best kind of business is one where there is no... Read More
Q. Be Aware of the Dangers in Business but Be Fearless.
A. Dadashri: Every business has gains and losses associated with it. If there are a lot of mosquitoes... Read More
Q. Today if a person tries to do business honestly, his business Incurs a loss, why is that?
A. Questioner : Today if a person tries to do business honestly, his business Incurs a loss, why is... Read More
Q. I have a lot of worries about my business. How to stop worrying?
A. Questioner : I have a lot of worries about my business. I am faced with a lot of... Read More
Q. No customers no business, what should I do?
A. Customers: Who Brings Them? Questioner : I open my shop early and close late in order to attract... Read More
Q. We have lot of money but no peace at home?
A. Questioner : Does the quarreling have anything to do with the kind of money people have? Dadashri:... Read More
Q. Keep Your Intentions Pure To Pay All Debts
A. Questioner : I have incurred a very heavy loss in my business, what should I do? Should I close the... Read More
Q. How dangerous is the Abuse of Power?
A. Some with power and authority will oppress those under them. The one who abuses his power will lose... Read More
Q. Why to protect your subordinates?
A. People criticize and attack their subordinates. You fools! Why don't you attack your boss? That is... Read More